Friday, June 12, 2015

Leaving California: The Long Good-bye

Fitting that there is a Raymond Chandler book and a Robert Altman movie (based on the book), called The Long Good-bye.  Emotional ups and downs along with cramming in packing, finishing school, training, tying up all sorts of loose ends at school - both personally and professionally -  along with seeing different groups of friends for a good-bye reunion marked the month of May and the beginning of June.  We are excited to move to Colorado, but we do so with sadness at leaving a place that has been our home for a substantial amount of time.  When I think of my Southern CA chapter, in particular, I can't ignore the major milestones that I experienced while living here: transitioned to married life, adopted 2 dogs, lost a dog, bought and sold a house.  I made and lost friends, grew as a teacher and took on new and different challenges at work and extracurricularly.  We definitely have built a life here, a very full and good one, so leaving is hard.

Since it's impossible to sum up 10 years in the LA area, plus another 3 years in the Central Coast area for me, I won't even try.  I never expected to live in California - it wasn't one of the places where I dreamed of living, I just sort of ended up here.  I'm not sure that I ever felt like a true "Californian" (not being blond and not surfing), but even as transplants, we both grew roots to the area which are painful to pull up as we move away.  We've had an amazing life here, have appreciated the great variety of people, places, and options, and I'll never forget the friendships we made and the experiences that we had.

So, for now, here is a quick good-bye:


The last morning on our front porch - enjoying a moment before starting the long drive to Boulder!  And, by the way, my feet really aren't huge, but they look crazy big in this photo!

There is more to say, and I suppose the title of the post is a bit misleading since, well, this is quite brief. I'm still taking in the fact that we are moving/have moved.  So, this move, while certainly not a surprise to us and something that we've wanted for years, IS bittersweet as I think about what we're leaving behind.  It's exciting but scary as I think about the unknown and the openness of what's to come.



And we're off! I drove the important cargo - bikes + dog! Essential items for a new life.

6 comments:

Michaela said...

Aww, I can relate. Moving is always bittersweet. Here's to the adventures ahead, and to the memories you will always carry with you!

Kristina said...

Michaela - There are adventures ahead, for sure, and, yes, we have amazing memories of our time in Cali!

mindful mule said...

Unless you guys end up in Lafayette you may need to hold a new blog title competition among your readers…

Kristina said...

Rob - I know! I'm working on it. I was thinking about "the peripatetic perspective". But we'll see. Any ideas?

mindful mule said...

Rocky Mountain Tri!

Kristina said...

Hmmmm... I guess I'm still trying to figure out how much of a Colorado identity I have at this point. And, do I want to be married to the "tri" thing? Again, in terms of 'blogosphere identity'? Deep questions, I know!